Are you a commitment phobe? Mind-bending optical illusion can reveal your attitude to relationships, depending on what you see first

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If you ever wonder why your relationshps don’t seem to work out, a mind-bending optical ilusion could help you identify if you have commitment issues. 

Posted on TikTok by @mia_yilin_ who regularly shares visual brainteasers on her page, the image features two possible solutions.  

Instructing viewers from around the world to look at the blue and beige picture, she asked: ‘What’s the first thing you see in this picture?’

Some people will see a flock of white doves mid flight against the blue sky, while others will spot the outline of a woman’s face.  

‘If you first saw the birds, then you are someone who struggles with long-term commitments because you crave excitement and predictability bores you,’ Mia explained. 

This mind-bending optical illusion can reveal your attitude to relationships, depending on what you see first

This mind-bending optical illusion can reveal your attitude to relationships, depending on what you see first

‘You are also very prone to overthinking, causing unnecessary stress in your life.’

However, she said that if you spotted the woman’s face first, it means you’re ‘a highly empathetic person’ who is ‘quick to pick up on the emotions of others’.

‘This sensitivity allows you to connect deeply with people but it can also be overwhelming as you tend to absorb the negative energy of those around you,’ she said. 

Her followers were impressed by the challenge, even though they were divided over what the picture shows. 

‘The face and the explanation was so on point,’ one wrote. 

‘Super accurate,’ another agreed. ‘Saw both at once and they both describe me.’ 

Followers were impressed by the challenge, even though they were divided over what the picture shows

Followers were impressed by the challenge, even though they were divided over what the picture shows

It comes after another optical illusion puzzle promises to reveal the ways you secretly show your love in your relationship, including things you may not even be aware you’re doing.

According to Your Tango, figuring out your private way of displaying intimacy can help you grow a deeper bond with your other half.

All you have to do is look at the below artwork by Oleg Shupliak and notice what your eyes are drawn to first.   

Then continue reading to find out what the visual personality test says about you.

All you have to do is look at this image and notice what your eyes are drawn to first

All you have to do is look at this image and notice what your eyes are drawn to first

The wolf

If you looked at this creepy image and saw the wolf first it suggests you’re passionate in your relationship and always follow your instincts. 

You often have ‘romantic escapades’ and have a lot of great stories to tell.

Most importantly, your love language is physical touch, which means more to you than words do.

Small physical gestures such as holding hands is how you subtly show love to your other half.

The house  

If you spotted the house first, which is in the background of the image with glowing windows, ‘home and security’ are very important to you.

Consistency and certainty in your relationship are the most important factors for you.

You’re a home body who enjoys nothing more than snuggling up and feeling safe with your loved one.

The way you show love is by feeding those you care about – whether it’s baking or cooking or even just having sweets on hand.

The moon

If your eyes naturally wandered to the moon at the top of the image, you’re a natural dreamer with your head in the clouds.

It means you have big plans and dreams for what you want to do with your life. 

You’re a very creative person who loves art, whether it be drawing, writing, reading or painting.

The way you express affection is through artistic expression – maybe you’re a keen poet or create handmade gifs for your partner.

The trees

If you were drawn to the trees on either side of the picture, you feel emotions more deeply than others and you have likely been through heartbreak before.

You aren’t very open about your emotional baggage and the way you show love is by revealing this part of yourself to your partner.

Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is your love language, something you only do for those who mean a lot to you. 

The faces

Finally, the faces are the most hidden aspect of the picture and you might not have even noticed it upon first glance.

However, if you spotted them first that means you’re a natural leader with good intuition – you were drawn to what others failed to see.

In terms of your love relationships, quality time is your love language and you’re great at putting it into practice.

You always make time for your partner, reminding them that they are one of your top priorities.