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Ashley Cain has revealed he is preparing to become a dad again for the second time.
The news comes two years since his beloved eight-month-old daughter Azaylia died in his arms after battling a rare form of cancer.
His baby girl, who he shared with then partner Safiyya Vorajee, was diagnosed with with acute myeloid leukemia at eight-weeks-old and had tumours on her lungs, stomach and kidneys.
She was given several rounds of chemotherapy and a bone marrow transplant at Birmingham Children’s Hospital but sadly died on April 24, 2021 when she was just eight-months-old, following a courageous battle.
However in an interview with The Sun, the former footballer, 33, shared the news that he is becoming a father again, and his little girl was the first person he told.
Ashley Cain has revealed he is preparing to become a dad again for the second time
It’s been two years since his beloved eight-month-old daughter Azaylia died in his arms after battling a rare form of cancer
Ashley went to his daughter’s grave to give her the news after feeling that he needed to tell her in order to feel good about his new baby.
He candidly revealed: ‘After going to her resting place and speaking to her about it, I just had a feeling in my heart and in my soul that she was happy for me.
‘She was happy that she had a little brother and it is now just someone else for her to watch over and protect in this world.’
Ashley had been preparing for the Yukon 1000, the world’s toughest survival endurance race from Canada, through the Arctic circle, to Alaska, when he received a call in July from a friend who he was dating at the time revealing she was pregnant.
While Ashley hasn’t disclosed the identity of the baby’s mother, he said they have been friends since they were 18 and have met up on and off over the years.
Opening up about how he felt after he received the news he confessed he found it difficult to process, but believes every child is a blessing.
Of finding out that he is expecting a boy, he said: ‘In the back of my head I didn’t really know how to deal or cope with it if it was a little girl. It could have been fine but it could have been heartbreaking all over again and I wasn’t sure.’
Ashley said that Azalyia would have loved a a little brother and he is looking forward to becoming a father again.
But Ashley’s strength was tested again when the couple discovered at the 20-week scan that their baby has a potential heart defect.
Ashley went to his daughter’s grave to give her the news after feeling that he needed to tell her in order to feel good about his new baby
Opening up about how he felt after he received the news he confessed he found it difficult to process, but believes every child is a blessing
Of finding out that he is expecting a boy, he said: ‘In the back of my head I didn’t really know how to deal or cope with it if it was a little girl. It could have been fine but it could have been heartbreaking all over again and I wasn’t sure’
He explained that the doctors couldn’t find the connection between one of the valves and the heart which naturally scared the star.
Although he is worried over his son’s health after his tough journey with Azaylia, he said he will go for a scan as soon as he is born to double check his health.
Ashley has previously described how he watched his daughter go from a ‘ray of sunshine’ to crying blood from her eyes as the rare and aggressive cancer took hold.
Speaking on the Original Penguin X Campaign Against Living Miserably Under The Surface podcast back in April, Ashley talked about Azaylia’s final moments and how she fought until the very end.
‘The first time I held Azaylia in my arms, I thought I had everything. All these things that I was searching for in my life before, couldn’t come close or equate to this,’ he says.
‘But I was living the dream for two months, before I found out that Azaylia had AML leukaemia.’
‘Do you know how hard it is going to sleep every night, scared to close your eyes because if you wake up, she might be gone. Do you know how difficult that is?
‘Do you know how difficult it is seeing your previous little girl who is a ray of sunshine, getting wires put in her, getting chemotherapy.
‘If her chemotherapy was going for three hours, I used to hold her for three hours, just so she knew I was there. That’s difficult.’
Ashley says he would have rather been ‘tortured for the rest of my life’ than have watched Azaylia suffer the way she did.
The couple’s daughter spent the majority of her life in hospital, undergoing four rounds of chemotherapy and stem cell treatment.
Despite efforts from around the world and a treatment in Singapore, pharmaceutical companies could not release the life-saving drugs needed to beat his daughter Azaylia’s battle.
In April 2021, the couple were told Azaylia only had a few days to live as they discovered tumours in her stomach, her spleen, her liver and her kidneys, in addition to tumours in her brain, and she tragically died later that month.
Ashley said: ‘I got told we can take Azaylia home now, there’s nothing else we can do, and I’m like “what do you mean?”, they said: “There is nothing we can do. She can’t fly to Singapore to get the treatment that you wanted, she’s got tumours in her brain, she’s got tumours in her lungs, she’s got tumours in her stomach, she’s got tumours in her spleen, she’s got tumours everywhere. And the cancer is growing with the chemotherapy. There’s nothing we can do.
‘So take her home, enjoy it, enjoy the last couple of days. I was like “what are you talking about?”
Ashley told the podcast – designed for men to help men talk openly about their emotions and hidden emotions – that he had sleepless nights and feared of falling asleep in case his daughter wasn’t there in the morning.
‘How can I take her home? Because I don’t know how she’s going to pass, if she’s going to bleed from the inside,’ he said.