EXCLUSIVE Prince Harry's war hero friend who lost two limbs in Afghanistan demands apology from JD Vance after 'random country that hasn't fought a war in 30 years' remark

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Prince Harry’s war hero pal who lost two limbs in Afghanistan has tonight demanded an apology from ‘shameful’ JD Vance after he seemingly branded Britain a ‘random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 years’.

Ben McBean, 37, from Plymouth, lost an arm and a leg after stepping on a landmine while patrolling in Afghanistan’s notorious Helmand Province in February, 2008.

The Royal Marine – who Prince Harry hailed as a ‘hero’ for fighting back from his catastrophic injuries – has accused US Vice President Mr Vance of ‘insulting’ the memories of hundreds of UK troops killed in the Middle East.

It comes as the under-fire American politician desperately scrambled today to prevent a transatlantic rift from widening, as he denied dismissing the UK’s military sacrifices in Afghanistan and Iraq. 

But his ‘disrespectful’ remarks have been met with fury from military veterans, who have branded US President Donald Trump’s number two a ‘f***ing a***hole’, who deserved to ‘get filled in’.  

Speaking to MailOnline, hero Commando Ben said: ‘He owes us an apology. We lost more than 600 men. There were over a 1,000 injured. And this muppet is just going out there and insulting all of them, saying it never happened.

‘Don’t pretend 600 dead bodies from war didn’t happen. He’s a keyboard warrior.’

It comes as a former Army commander raged Vance had ‘sullied’ the memories of a generation of brave UK troops who were killed or hurt fighting in support of the US. 

‘The man is a complete f***ing a***hole,’ fumed Colonel Hamish de Bretton-Gordon, who completed two tours in Helmand Province.

Ben McBean, 37, from Plymouth, lost an arm and a leg after stepping on a landmine while patrolling in Afghanistan’s notorious Helmand Province in February, 2008.

He struck up a friendship with Prince Harry when he was flown back to the UK for treatment on the same flight as the Duke of Sussex (both are pictured in October 2014)

He struck up a friendship with Prince Harry when he was flown back to the UK for treatment on the same flight as the Duke of Sussex (both are pictured in October 2014)

Father-of-two Ben said he will have to live with his wounds for the rest of his life

Father-of-two Ben said he will have to live with his wounds for the rest of his life 

JD Vance was today branded 'shameful' after the US Vice President appeared to dismiss Britain as a 'random country that hasn't fought a war in 30 or 40 years'

JD Vance was today branded ‘shameful’ after the US Vice President appeared to dismiss Britain as a ‘random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years’

‘It wouldn’t matter unless he was someone important – and he is, he is the Vice President of the United States.

‘It’s a crass comment to make. He claims to be an ex-marine. [To see] someone with such a lack of empathy and sensitivity is quite remarkable.’

What has been interpreted as Mr Vance’s apparent dig at Britain’s military history has sparked widespread anger across the UK, from armed forces personnel, veterans and MPs across all political parties.

It came after he rubbished Prime Minister Sir Keir Starmer’s offer of a peacekeeping force in Ukraine with British and French boots on the ground. 

Mr Vance used a Fox News interview to instead pile pressure on Ukraine to sign a minerals deal with Donald Trump.

He said this was ‘a way better security guarantee than 20,000 troops from some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years’.

Seething ex-servicemen pointed out that 636 British troops died in Afghanistan and Iraq after the UK allied with the US in military action following the 9/11 terror attacks.

Father-of-two Ben, who marked the 17th anniversary of his injury last week, said Vance’s seemingly off-the-cuff comments had left veterans and their families reeling.  

‘I was blown up in Afghanistan. I’m living like this for the rest of my life but he gets to forget about his comments tomorrow,’ Ben told MailOnline.  

Hero Commando Ben said said the US Vice President 'owes us an apology' for is comments

Hero Commando Ben said said the US Vice President ‘owes us an apology’ for is comments 

Ben is pictured on the parade square receiving his campaign medal just weeks after losing a leg and an arm in an IED blast

Ben is pictured on the parade square receiving his campaign medal just weeks after losing a leg and an arm in an IED blast

Mourners pay their respects as the coffins British troops who died in Afghanistan pass through the village of Wootton Bassett in Wiltshire

Mourners pay their respects as the coffins British troops who died in Afghanistan pass through the village of Wootton Bassett in Wiltshire

‘He shouldn’t get to talk about me and my friends who, at 18 years old, were out there scrapping and dying like it never happened.

‘I lost people there. The whole 20 years if you went there, you lost someone. I lost guys on the ground and guys when they came back, who killed themselves. I almost killed myself a few years ago… He doesn’t have the right to say anything to us.’ 

The double amputee, who was medevacced home on the same flight in 2008 which brought Prince Harry back to the UK, added: ‘He would get filled in if anyone got hold of him. I’d fill him in if I got hold of him.’ 

Mr Vance was accused of ‘erasing from history’ the sacrifice of UK personnel in those bloody conflicts, with his remarks labelled ‘deeply disrespectful’.

But the Vice President later strained to claw back his remarks amid the widespread anger at his intervention.

He claimed he hadn’t been aiming his barb at Britain or France – who are the only two countries to publicly commit to a peacekeeping force in Ukraine.

Yet Mr Vance failed to clarify which nations he had been referring to.

In a post on X, formerly known as Twitter, Mr Vance said: ‘This is absurdly dishonest.

‘I don’t even mention the UK or France in the clip, both of whom have fought bravely alongside the US over the last 20 years, and beyond.

‘But let’s be direct: there are many countries who are volunteering (privately or publicly) support who have neither the battlefield experience nor the military equipment to do anything meaningful.’

Plymouth-based M Company, 42 Commando Royal Marines, carrying out Operation Volcano against Taliban forces in the village of Barikyu in Nothern Helmand Province, Afghanistan

Plymouth-based M Company, 42 Commando Royal Marines, carrying out Operation Volcano against Taliban forces in the village of Barikyu in Nothern Helmand Province, Afghanistan

British Army anaesthetist Lt Col Peter Mahoney (L) ventilates British soldier as he is moved back to the Intensive care Unit after a CT scan on May 5, 2007 at Camp Bastion

British Army anaesthetist Lt Col Peter Mahoney (L) ventilates British soldier as he is moved back to the Intensive care Unit after a CT scan on May 5, 2007 at Camp Bastion

Colonel Hamish de Bretton-Gordon lashed out over the comments by JD Vance

Colonel Hamish de Bretton-Gordon lashed out over the comments by JD Vance 

But the Vice President’s efforts to clarify his remarks brought further condemnation.

Critics pointed to the huge list of countries who lost troops after joining US military action in Afghanistan after 9/11.

Mr Vance had earlier ramped up transatlantic tensions as he poured cold water over Sir Keir’s plan for a ‘coalition of the willing’ to secure peace in Ukraine.

He told Fox News: ‘If you want real security guarantees, if you want to actually ensure that Vladimir Putin does not invade Ukraine again, the very best security guarantee is to give Americans economic upside in the future of Ukraine.

‘That is a way better security guarantee than 20,000 troops from some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years.’

Mr Vance was heavily criticised for his Fox News comments and told to ‘wind his neck in’ as he risked souring UK relations with Mr Trump’s administration.

Downing Street slapped down the Vice President’s comments.

Sir Keir’s official spokesman saying: ‘The PM and this country are full of admiration for UK troops who served in recent years in Iraq and Afghanistan alongside the US and other allies.’

British soldiers from 21 Air Assault Battery Royal Artillery are pictured in Lashkar Gar in 2006

British soldiers from 21 Air Assault Battery Royal Artillery are pictured in Lashkar Gar in 2006

Prince Harry sits with a group of Gurkha soldiers after firing a machine gun from the observation post on JTAC Hill, close to FOB Delhi (forward operating base), on January 2, 2008

Prince Harry sits with a group of Gurkha soldiers after firing a machine gun from the observation post on JTAC Hill, close to FOB Delhi (forward operating base), on January 2, 2008

Reform UK leader Nigel Farage said Mr Vance was ‘wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong’.

‘For 20 years in Afghanistan – pro rata our size against America’s – we spent the same amount of money, we put the same number of men and women in, and we suffered the same losses,’ he told GB News, as he attended a farmers’ protest in Westminster.

‘We stood by America all through those 20 years, putting in exactly the same contribution.

‘And, alright, they may be six times bigger but we did our bit. So, on this one, JD is wrong.’

But Conservative leader Kemi Badenoch – who has launched a crackdown on Tory MPs posting on social media about the Ukraine crisis – agreed with Mr Vance’s suggestion that he had been misrepresented over his remarks.

‘I know JD Vance quite well. I’ve looked at the comments, I don’t think he actually said that,’ Mrs Badenoch said.

‘A lot of people are getting carried away. They’re saying loads of things and getting quite animated. Let’s keep cool heads.

‘America is our closest ally and I believe President Trump and JD Vance want peace. They’re looking after their national interest. We need to do so as well.’

This was despite one of Mrs Badenoch’s top shadow ministers and a string of other Conservative MPs lashing out at Mr Vance’s comments on social media. 

James Cartlidge, the shadow defence secretary, pointed to how NATO allies rushed to America’s aid after the 9/11 attacks, when the US invoked the alliance’s Article 5 collective defence clause.

‘Britain and France came to their aid deploying thousands of personnel to Afghanistan, including my own brother and numerous parliamentary colleagues past and present,’ Mr Cartlidge said.

‘It’s deeply disrespectful to ignore such service and sacrifice.’

Reform UK leader Nigel Farage, who attended a farmers' protest in Westminster today, said Mr Vance was 'wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong'

Reform UK leader Nigel Farage, who attended a farmers’ protest in Westminster today, said Mr Vance was ‘wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong’

But Conservative leader Kemi Badenoch suggested Mr Vance had been misrepresented over his remarks

But Conservative leader Kemi Badenoch suggested Mr Vance had been misrepresented over his remarks

Ex-Armed Forces minister James Heappey, a former soldier, said that serving alongside American and French troops were ‘defining moments of my military career’.

‘Sad to hear the relationship reduced to this,’ he added, in response to Mr Vance’s comments.

Fellow Conservative politician Johnny Mercer, who was veterans minister until July last year and served as a commando in Afghanistan, said: ‘Vance needs to wind his neck in. Show a bit of respect and stop making yourself look so unpleasant.’

He added: ‘This clown needs to check his privilege. I read his book making the mistake of finding him quite interesting.

‘By his own admission he spent his time in the Marines ‘writing articles and taking pictures’.

‘Perhaps if he had got his hands dirty serving his country like so many of his fellow American and British veterans, chasing his own country’s crazy foreign policy ideas, he might not be so quick to dismiss their sacrifice.’

Former defence minister Tobias Ellwood said: The Vice President’s re-writing of history (claiming the UK has not fought in 30 years) is an insult to all the sacrifices our brave military made fighting along side the US in Iraq and Afghanistan.

‘This is further confirmation that America is increasingly aligning itself away from Europe and towards Russia. We are on our own.’

Ben Obese-Jecty, the Tory MP for Huntingdon, also noted how Mr Vance wrote in his 2016 memoir that he was ‘lucky to escape any real fighting’ during his time as a Marine Corps journalist in Iraq.

Mr Obese-Jecty, who served in both Iraq and Afghanistan himself, added: ‘British troops stood shoulder to shoulder with the US after Article 5 was invoked following 9/11.

‘I served in Afghanistan in 2009 and 2010 during its most kinetic phase. In Sangin, I saw first-hand the sacrifices made by our soldiers; a quarter of the 457 British soldiers lost died there.

‘Vice-President Vance served in Iraq writing articles and taking photos for the US Marines. He should be well aware of the sacrifices made by America’s allies in recent decades.

‘To suggest Britain did not pay our share of blood and treasure does a disservice to the close relationship between our two militaries.’

David Taylor, the Labour MP for Hemel Hempstead, said: ‘This great nation has proudly fought shoulder to shoulder with our US allies, with 457 service men and women killed defending freedom in Afghanistan alone.

‘These shameful remarks will never undo their sacrifice or the gratitude we have for their defence of British values.’

Liberal Democrat MP Helen Maguire, a former captain in the Royal Military Police who served in Iraq, said: ‘JD Vance is erasing from history the hundreds of British troops who gave their lives in Iraq and Afghanistan.

‘I saw firsthand how American and British soldiers fought bravely together shoulder to shoulder.

‘Six of my own regiment, the Royal Military Police, didn’t return home from Iraq. This is a sinister attempt to deny that reality.’

She said Lord Mandelson, the UK’s ambassador to the US, should ‘call on Vance to apologise for these comments’.

Andy McNab, the former SAS soldier who fought in the First Gulf War, invited Mr Vance to visit Britain’s war memorials.

The best-selling author said: ‘He needs to read the names of the dead who have fought and shed blood alongside US troops.’

Graham Stuart, the Tory MP for Beverley and Holderness, said: ‘We have to consider the possibility that President Trump is a Russian asset.

‘If so, Trump’s acquisition is the crowning achievement of Putin’s FSB career – and Europe is on its own.’

It later emerged how Mrs Badenoch is attempting to limit interventions by her party’s MPs over the Ukraine crisis and actions by Mr Trump and his team.

In a message to every Tory MP, Rebecca Harris – the Conservative chief whip – said: ‘We understand that there are many concerns about the unfolding events around Ukraine and US involvement. We do not need to tweet all of our thoughts in real time.

‘When it comes to defence and national security, we need to raise the threshold for what needs to be said publicly and ensure the facts are clear first.’

Mr Vance’s own intervention came after Mr Trump inflicted another hammer blow on decades of Western alliances by pulling all military aid to Ukraine.

The White House has paused delivery of ammunition and other equipment to Kyiv after announcing overnight it was ‘reviewing’ assistance to ‘ensure that it is contributing to a solution’.

The move appears to be part of a power play to heap pressure on Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky to make concessions in negotiations with Russia.

Meanwhile, there are claims that Trump officials have been drawing up plans to ease sanctions on Mr Putin, the Russian President.

A Government spokeswoman said the UK is ‘absolutely committed to securing a lasting peace’ after the extraordinary decision by the US President.

In radio and TV interviews this morning, Deputy PM Angela Rayner admitted it is a ‘very serious moment’ but American military aid was a ‘matter for the US’.

In his Fox News interview, Mr Vance heightened his criticism of Mr Zelensky, accusing him of ‘needling’ Mr Trump and having a ‘certain sense of entitlement’.

‘He showed a clear unwillingness to engage in the peace process that President Trump said is the policy,’ he said.

‘That’s the real breakdown. I think Zelensky wasn’t yet there. And, frankly, still isn’t there. But I think he’ll get there eventually, he has to.’

Mr Vance said Ukrainian officials have made at least one attempt to restart negotiations after leaving the White House, but their efforts were shut down by the president.

He claimed the ‘door is open’ as long as ‘Zelensky is willing to seriously talk peace’.

Highlighting the minerals deal, Mr Vance said that would amount to a security deal with the US that would prevent Putin ‘invading Ukraine again’.

‘If you want real security guarantees, if you want to actually ensure that Vladimir Putin does not invade Ukraine again, the very best security guarantee is to give Americans economic upside in the future of Ukraine,’ he said. 

‘That is a way better security guarantee than 20,000 troops from some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years.’ 

Keir Starmer is 'engaging with key allies' today after Donald Trump 's bombshell move to pull all military aid to Ukraine

Keir Starmer is ‘engaging with key allies’ today after Donald Trump ‘s bombshell move to pull all military aid to Ukraine

Relations between Mr Zelensky and Mr Trump reached new lows on Friday with a public slanging match in the Oval Office

Relations between Mr Zelensky and Mr Trump reached new lows on Friday with a public slanging match in the Oval Office

European leaders and Canada gathered in London on Sunday to consider the response to the Ukraine crisis

European leaders and Canada gathered in London on Sunday to consider the response to the Ukraine crisis 

A UK Government spokeswoman said: ‘We remain absolutely committed to securing a lasting peace in Ukraine and are engaging with key allies in support of this effort. It is the right thing to do, and is in our interest to do so.

‘We have bolstered Ukrainian military capabilities through our commitment to provide Ukraine with £3 billion-a-year in military aid for as long as it takes and through a £2.26 billion loan using sanctioned Russian assets.

‘In addition, we’ve set up a partnership with Ukraine that allows them to use £1.6 billion of UK Export Finance to buy 5,000 air defence missiles manufactured in Belfast, putting Ukraine in the strongest possible position for peace.’

Ms Rayner said Sir Keir remains ‘laser-focused’ on securing a lasting peace for Kyiv and would not be ‘derailed’.

‘We are absolutely focused on making sure that we get that peace and the security guarantees as part of that,’ she said.

‘We won’t be derailed or sidelined by commentary, ongoing commentary, but that we will use our relationship, our long-standing relationship, with the US and our European allies to support Ukraine and President Zelensky in getting that peace deal and making sure those securities are part of that.’

Sir Keir told the Commons just hours before Mr Trump’s intervention that he ‘understood’ the US position was not to withdraw aid. 

Relations between Mr Zelensky and Mr Trump reached new lows on Friday with a public slanging match in the Oval Office.

That triggered crisis talks between European leaders in London on Sunday, with Sir Keir trying to forge a ‘coalition of the willing’ that could enforce any peace deal with Russia. 

The UK and France have signalled they would be ready to contribute troops on the ground, while Canada, Italy and Poland are other potential participants.

But Sir Keir has made clear that UK troops would not be deployed without an underpinning of security guarantees from the US.  

Mr Zelensky looks to be resisting Washington’s demands that he accepts the principle of ceding territory to Russia, after the latest full-scale invasion in 2022. Putin’s troops current occupy around a fifth of Ukraine. 

A White House official said: ‘The President has been clear that he is focused on peace. We need our partners to be committed to that goal as well. We are pausing and reviewing our aid to ensure that it is contributing to a solution.’

The decision casts doubt over Ukraine’s ability to continue to defending itself against Russian invaders. It is understood the ‘pause’ will extend to undelivered aid already earmarked for Ukraine by the Biden administration.

A second official told Fox News that ‘this is not permanent termination of aid, it’s a pause’. All military equipment not currently in Ukraine will be halted and all future aid is now in jeopardy.

Mr Trump’s shift followed an abrupt post warning that ‘America will not put up with it for much longer’ yesterday after Mr Zelensky suggested the end of the war is still ‘very, very far away’.

Sir Keir told the Commons just hours before Mr Trump's (pictured) intervention that he 'understood' the US position was not to withdraw aid

Sir Keir told the Commons just hours before Mr Trump’s (pictured) intervention that he ‘understood’ the US position was not to withdraw aid

Mr Zelensky was speaking after the London summit saw 18 allies joining to offer Ukraine security guarantees and reify their support. Sir Keir said the powers would work together to draw up a viable peace plan that could be presented to Mr Trump.

‘This is the worst statement that could have been made by Zelensky, and America will not put up with it for much longer,’ an infuriated Mr Trump posted on his Truth Social website.

Mr Trump also questioned Mr Zelensky’s commitment to peace, saying that he ‘doesn’t want there to be peace as long as he has America’s backing’. 

He also hinted that Mr Zelensky might not be Ukrainian president much longer – a key demand of Putin.

Mrs Badenoch said the UK and Europe must ‘rearm faster’ following the US announcement.

She said:’ The news overnight that America is halting military aid to Ukraine is profoundly worrying.

‘It is clear that Britain and Europe must rearm much faster if we want to provide Ukraine with more than just warm words of support.

‘We must work to keep America in, and Russia out.’