A heartbroken mother has made a plea for pollen allergies to be taken more seriously after her son was killed following a hayfever reaction while he celebrated the end of his GCSEs with friends.

Helena Dale, 56, lost her son, Joe, then 16, after he went out to the park with pals to following the end of exams during the height of summer.

While relaxing at a friend’s house later that evening, Joe suffered a devastating asthma attack and lost consciousness. He was rushed to hospital but never regained consciousness.

He died a six days later – the day of his school prom – after his parents made the decision to turn off his life-support machine.

Doctors believe his cause of death in June 2017 was a severe asthmatic reaction to pollen, which was extremely high that day, and can cause airways to swell up for sufferers of the condition.

It’s believed the swelling caused Joe’s bronchial tubes to narrow – preventing the teen from being able to breathe properly and resulting in him falling unconscious.

Nearly eight years on, Helena is sharing Joe’s story to help warn others to be ‘be vigilant’ ahead of the summer months and carry medication everywhere with them.

Helena, who works in admin, from Barnsley, South Yorkshire, said: ‘There needs to be more awareness raised around pollen allergies.

Helena and Jon Dale lost their son, Joe, then 16, after he went out to the park with pals to following the end of exams during the height of summer

Joe had been a keen footballer and played up to four times a week. Doctors believe his cause of death was a severe asthmatic reaction to pollen, which can cause airways to swell up for sufferers of the condition

‘They’re not taken seriously enough. I never believed Joe would die, I thought he’d be OK.

‘It’s impossible to put into words what it’s like to lose a child like this – it’s absolutely heart-wrenching.

‘It still hurts every day he’s not here. When I see his mates get jobs and girlfriends, I think Joe should be here doing the same thing.

‘Take medication as medically instructed and an inhaler everywhere if you have one. Be vigilant, especially when the pollen count is high.

‘It’s nice to talk about Joe and use his story to raise awareness, but it’s just as painful because we’re still navigating life without him.’

Helena described Joe as a ‘fit and active’ boy who played football up to four times a week and often went go-kart racing with his dad, Jon, 54, a graphic designer.

Despite suffering from asthma since the age of five, Joe had only had one asthma attack when he was 12, before his death four years later.

Helena said he took a puff on a ‘brown inhaler’ – to reduce airway inflammation – each morning and evening and kept a ‘blue inhaler’ – which relax airways- on him during the day in case of an emergency.

Joe’s family, made up of parents Helena and Jon, brother Matt, 14, and sister Abbie, 25, (all pictured) stayed with Joe after he died after Bluebell Wood Children’s Hospice providing specialist suites

He collapsed a day after his final school exam and having bought a prom suit with his mother. He died on the day of his school prom (ticket pictured)

On June 23, 2017, after spending time with friends at the park, at around 7..30pm, Joe got up from his seat and puffed on his blue inhaler.

He then fell to the floor unconscious, and an ambulance was called before Joe’s friend contacted Helena and Jon to tell them what had happened.

He was rushed to Barnsley Hospital and immediately admitted to intensive care, where doctors spent days attempting to save his life.

Helena says on June 23 2017, a consultant told them there was nothing else they could do.

In the wake of the tragedy, the heartbroken couple decided to donate Joe’s organs and they have since learned they were used to save three other people – including a father and a teenager.

Helena said: ‘We knew he would have wanted that, he was such a kind and thoughtful person.

‘It does help to know his death wasn’t for nothing.’

When the GCSE results were released that summer, Joe’s family discovered he had achieved great results in all his subjects – including some A*s.

When the GCSE results were released that summer, Joe’s family discovered he had achieved great results in all his subjects – including some A*s 

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Boy, 16, collapsed and died after celebrating end of GCSEs with friends in park when he suffered allergic reaction to pollen

He was due to go into Penistone Grammar Sixth Form a few weeks later and had plans to go to university afterwards too.

Helena and Jon – alongside their two other children, Matt, 20, and Abbie, 31 – were supported by Bluebell Wood Children’s Hospice in the wake of Joe’s death.

The hospice enables families to stay with their children after they die in specialist suites.

‘We were able to stay at the facility for a week after we lost Joe – it was our saving grace,’ Helena said.

‘We’ve never forgotten that and continue a close relationship with the hospice.

‘This September, Joe would have been 25. It hurts that he isn’t here.

‘To anyone who has pollen allergies – severe or not – be vigilant this summer.

‘Make smart choices with outdoor exposure and always take your medication and or an inhaler everywhere.

‘Joe’s story is a tragic reminder that pollen allergies are serious.’